Girls' Vacation | Ritz Carlton | Palm Beach, Florida

posted on: Wednesday, June 27, 2012

I wish Michelle still lived a half mile down the road from me.

Oh, but there are so many reasons why this distance has come to pass. My burning desire to create a better life for myself, meeting my now husband and being firmly planted in an area of the world we've both come to call home, the fact that even if we did move, we would most likely land in Italy. This reality has left me feeling grateful for the life I have built out west but sorry for the dearest and best friend I left behind fourteen years ago and the knowledge that our time together, if we're lucky, we'll be spent on vacations - if and when we can both manage it and our schedules align. This is why we carefully plotted the ideal "girls only" get away to celebrate our birthdays. One where she could take a break from being an incredible mom of two adorable boys, a mouth watering chef to her kids and the world's second perfect husband (just after Alessandro, of course), and I could take a much needed break since launching my photography and non-profit endeavors two years ago.

You may wonder how does a childhood friendship sustain the distance of 3,000 miles and years upon years of missing out on some very important milestones like weddings, births, new jobs. I don't know if I have the answer. All I know is I'm lucky to have her. Maybe some snippets from our trip will help solve that riddle….


No, I'm not 80 years old, but I like to act like a senior citizen by always carrying my own green tea bags with me.
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Oh, look at that! No, it's not a packet of Sanka, just the new modern version of instant coffee, VIA, that Michelle, too, carries around in her purse. Who are we and why are we so strange?
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Michelle was shocked at how much I eat - I tried to worn her. Only three hours after eating these pancakes and hash browns, I was ready for a full blown lunch! To use her words exactly, "My God, I can't keep up with you!" Well, I may eat alot, but she couldn't get enough of the fruit infused water the hotel offered throughout the grounds. And you know what that means. She was in the lieu every ten minutes. I wish I was exaggerating, but it's completely true.
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The Ritz Carlton Palm Beach is super opulent. We oohed and awed each time we came down to the lobby, and I probably stopped and stared at the jewelry case at the gift shop every single time we passed it - which was at least five times a day. True story.
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When celebrating a milestone birthday, a Tiffany purchase is fitting, don't you think? Michelle, a pair of earings. Me, a pair of stacking rings. : )
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A stroll on the beach - just like old times. On one of our walks we collected seashells to bring home and keep in a glass jar - a little something to remember our trip.
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Laughing at Michelle while she takes my picture - she became a pro in two seconds! 
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I suggested we take some sexy boudoir shots to surprise her husband, Adam. This was as close as we got. "Hush… don't speak!"
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Some may call me a stalker, I just say I'm beguiled by beauty (when you read this, imagine a voice over by one of the housewives of New York City and me posing in front of  the city skyline on the big screen TV… cuz that's what we did every time a particularity of our personalities came out - such as "you may say I'm high maintenance, I say I'm a woman who knows what I want" with a strut and a push of the hip - vuala!). Anywho. These parents of the bride or groom of a wedding taking place at the hotel just looked so regal. I couldn't resist. Course, they mistook me for the photographer they hired and that was ironic, now wasn't it?!
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The views and the details. Gorgeous. I hope we come back soon!
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Florida Bound | Golden Girls Dress Rehearsal

posted on: Tuesday, June 19, 2012

She may have scared me at first sitting there yelling at a fellow classmate on my first day at a new school threatening to slap the bejeezus out of him. I remember vividly taking a mental note: "STAY AWAY FROM HER!" That wasn't easy to do in our small classroom, and we never really figured out how to co-exist in our little world of 4th graders until the following summer when we were the only 9 year olds at a 4th of July family picnic down at Chalker Beach in Old Saybrook, CT. We had no choice but to join forces and almost instantly, we became fast friends best friends stealing fireworks from our cousin's bedroom, lighting them off in the street, diving into the ocean from the jetty, and playing on the beach past sunset where ultimately we watched the firework display and made fun of the "oohing and awing" of the crowd as we would every year thereafter.

Michelle, the Sonny to my Cher, the Flo to my Roger, the Bo to my Luke Duke - all just regular get ups we would dawn around town and on stage in high school. You can imagine what the boys thought of us - and if so - you can also imagine how little we cared! ; ) Well, she and I are off to Florida to celebrate our upcoming birthdays and to play out our high school dream of living the life of the Golden Girls together. Sure, it's a few decades early, but why not give it a whirl. Go crazy! 

That said, I'm off and will return on the 25th! Til then!


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Sarah-Lynn's Bat Mitzvah | Highlands Country Club, Oakland, CA

posted on: Monday, June 18, 2012

If anyone were to ask me what is the one single most important aspect of my life, my response would be my faith in a loving God. All I know is when I trust in something bigger and better than myself, life unfolds in abundant ways. 

Sarah-Lynn reminded me of that yesterday when I had the honor and the pleasure of photographing her Bat Mitzvah. Her grace as well as her own faith are powerful examples to me, and I am so grateful to have had the honor of witnessing Sarah-Lynn celebrate her transition into adulthood in the Jewish community. Her rich culture, loving family, adorable sisters, generous and compassionate spirit, and dedication to her community are indeed beautiful examples of God's grace and abundance. 

Mazel tov!!!!!


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